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5 Things you Need to Know Before You Start Homeschooling

Back to school signs abound all around us, sales on paper and stationary are dangled in our faces. Alas, it’s that time of year again and many people are considering homeschooling as an option for the first time!

If you are new to homeschooling or need some fresh inspiration as the school year approaches, read this post on the 5 things you need to know before you start homeshooling! Make sure you pin this image so you can find it later!

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5 Things you need to know Before you Start Homeschooling!

1. Homeschooling is HARD.

I put this first because I think a lot of times people see the idyllic picture above with a smiling mom and child and get the wrong idea. Homeschooling is not perfect. It is not easy, it is challenging and frustrating and downright overwhelming at times! If you walk into homeschooling thinking it is going to be a walk in the park, you are in for a rude awakening! It is important to understand that it get’s easier the longer you do it and the older your children get. It takes years to get into the swing of things and find what works best for you and your children. Take your time, do your research, figure out your kids’ learning styles and choose curriculum based on that.

2. Anyone CAN homeschool.

That’s right, you heard me, anyone. Now, some people cannot because they both have to work or because they have a difficult relationship with their child, I am not talking about those people. I am talking to the mom who thinks she doesn’t have the patience or organization or ability to homeschool. No matter what your own education was like, no matter what your faults may be, you CAN homeschool… successfully! Your patience will be stretched and will grow, your organizational skills will improve, you will learn along with your child! Homeschooling will help you and your child to grow together!

3. Homeschooling does not limit your children, it removes limitations!

If you are concerned that homeschooling will limit your children: limit their exposure, their social life, their opportunities, etc. you have nothing to fear! Not only will homeschooling NOT limit your children in those ways but it opens up endless possibilities for your family! You can do what kids in school cannot! You have no time restraints, class size restraints, system restraints, etc. If your child doesn’t learn with that textbook, try using some Montessori-inspired centers! If you are learning about geography, go on a road trip! Is your child interested in a certain career? Set up a job shadow or field trip! It is super easy to do and the sky’s the limit!

4. Lower your expectations.

This is a big one, don’t go into your homeschool year with unrealistic expectations. You WILL get behind, you WILL have bad days, you WILL find that some of what you bought or what you are doing isn’t working. You will lose your patience some days, it may not look like the adorable classroom you saw on Pinterest and your kids may not meet the goals you had for them. The more relaxed and low key you go into your school year, the more successful it will be! Make sure to check out this post about creating a homeschooling schedule and avoiding homeschooling burnout.

5. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff.

Homeschooling is full of small stuff. Grades, lesson planning, curriculum, field trips, etc. If you find that you miss doing some lessons or get behind on something or don’t fit in your field trips, don’t sweat it! You could plan an entire year FULL of insane activities and lessons and have a horrible experience getting frustrated, pushing your kids and resulting in tears and loss of relationship. OR you could have a more relaxed year, enjoy your children, enjoy the experience and have a child that LOVED being homeschooled and loves learning! Which one do you think they prefer? Kids are resilient, they learn naturally through life! It is 10 times more essential to inspire a love of learning than to cram their head with facts that will most likely be forgotten in a week. Remember that in just a few hours of one on one time with you they are accomplishing more than they often get in a week of school!

Is this your first year homeschooling? Comment below!

If this is your first year homeschooling, check out the new to homeschooling post HERE, ask questions, come check out my Facebook page HERE or join the homeschool support group HERE. I’d love to connect, answer your questions, get to know you and offer what advice I can! Thanks for reading and if you liked this post, hit share below!


  1. Thank you for this list. This will be my first year homeschooling (my oldest is starting kindergarten) and I am so excited (mostly for reason 3). I know I need to tone it down a bit. I keep telling myself it will be hard, but I think in my mind I’m still expecting the idyllic Pinterest picture. For that reason, your points 4 and 5 are important for me to keep in mind. I definitely want this experience to be something my kids enjoy and remember fondly when they’re grown.

  2. We live in the UK and homeschooling is gaining popularity over her. There has been lots in the press recently: and . We have been finding it hard to know where to start. I especially like the comment about ‘not sweating the small stuff’. I’ve got to confess that my biggest fear is creating gaps in my childrens’ knowledge. I do however feel that their knowledge could be broader by homeschooling. πŸ™‚

  3. My son will be 4 soon, and he already know how to spell his name verbally and visually. Now it’s time to teach him writing, reading and everything else. I knew I was going to do this, but I don’t know where to start. I scared I’m going to fail or miss something.

    • Play lots of alphabet games! My daughter did not learn her ABC’s until she was five! We were very worried she would fall behind tremendously. However, a year later she is reading and writing on her own. Of course she is not yet fluent but she enjoys it! We purchased a sketch journal for her to jot down any feelings/ideas/creations and she uses it every day to write and draw various things. She has associated reading and writing with communication which is the absolute key to get across to your budding reader.

  4. These points were fantastic! I am a former public education teacher (taught for 3 years), as well as former Childcare Director at our church. I am now a mom of 2, and the Lord called me to leave work and be home full time. As excited as I am to be home, I now believe He wants me to homeschool. I am SUPER excited, but feel lost as to where to begin, as well as the logistics of it all. Do I need to file something with the government to get started? Is that a crazy question? πŸ˜‚ Do my children need to take tests at any point for anyone other than me? Do I report her grades somewhere?

    Thank you again for these tips!! They could not have been more perfect for me at this point! ☺️


  5. It’s good to know that the homeschooling option can provide a lot of opportunities for my children despite having a different environment from normal schools. My eldest is supposed to enroll this year, but she had refused several times because she didn’t want to be surrounded by people she barely knows. It might be a good idea to inquire about any available homeschooling programs near us and ask my daughter if she’ll like it.

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